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>> URINE ALARM STOPS BED-

WETTING IN CHILDREN

Most children occasionally wet their beds as they complete their nighttime potty training (staying dry through the night). It’s also common for older children to wet their beds. Five million to 7 million children in the United States ages 6 and over wet their beds at night, according to the National Kidney Foundation. Bed-wetting, also called nocturnal enuresis, is diagnosed if a child 5 or older wets his bed at least twice a week for at least three months. Boys are three times more likely than girls to wet their bed. There is often a genetic link to bed-wetting.

The method found to be most effective to cure this common childhood problem is the urine alarm (Mayo Clinic, 2000). Based on Pavlovian classical conditioning principles, and sometimes referred to as the bell-and-pad treatment, the urine alarm wakes the child the instant dampness is detected on the child’s underwear or a pad on the bed. Over time, the child becomes conditioned to awaken at the feeling of a full bladder. The urine alarm has a success rate of 75 percent after three to four months of treatment. They are inexpensive, easy to use and can be found in stores, catalogs and on the Internet.

BABY MONITOR HELPS WITH BETWETTING My son uses a urine alarm to help him get some control over his chronic bed-wetting. I always try to assist him in getting to the bathroom after the alarm goes off, but I often didn’t hear the alarm because my bedroom is on the other side of the house. I solved this problem by using our baby monitor. We put the microphone part of the monitor in my son’s bedroom and the receiver in my bedroom. Now I always hear the alarm the instant it goes off. -- P.H., Portland, Ore.

"STAY DRY" SURPRISE BOX My son had a hard time staying dry through the night. I made a "stay dry" box by covering a shoe box with wrapping paper (contact paper would also work), and I filled it with little toys and treats. If he stayed dry through the night, he would get to select one prize. It kept him dry for a month straight the first time we tried it. A "stay dry" box can be a great motivator if there is not an underlying physical problem. -- J.V.W., Centerville, Utah

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